Karen Retardo Karen Retardo

Life by Design vs. Life by Default: How to Shape Your Future with Intention

Imagine waking up tomorrow to a life filled with purpose and excitement, exactly as you've always dreamed. Now, contrast that with waking up to a life that just...happened—without intentional choices, just drifting along.

This isn't just a thought experiment; it highlights the stark difference between living life by design and life by default. Living by design means being the captain of your ship, steering towards your chosen horizon. In contrast, living by default is like floating adrift at sea, directionless.

Are you ready to take the wheel and steer toward a life filled with purpose? Let’s dive into how you can shift from default to design, and truly live on your own terms.

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Karen Retardo Karen Retardo

Why 'Being' Matters More Than 'Doing'

Ever catch yourself in the “If only” trap? You know, the one where you think, "If only I had that degree, then I'd be successful," or "If only I had their approval, I'd finally be enough." I’ve been there, too. But here’s the thing—what if it's not about having more to be more? What if it’s about embracing who you are right now and letting the rest naturally follow? In this piece, we’ll explore why being matters more than doing, and how flipping the script can lead to a more fulfilling, authentic journey. So, let’s dive in and start from where we are—with a whole lot of heart and a little bit of courage.

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